Bounce-Back Quiz
Pine
You put down roots even in cracks in the rock, and take your time, on your own, to stand tall again.
Pines put down roots on rocky ground and sandy shores where other trees struggle to grow. Where the soil is thin, they push their roots into cracks in the rock to hold themselves up. You, too, when you're feeling down, would rather send roots deeper inside yourself than lean on others.
You take time to bounce back. On your own, you go through it step by step: what happened, and how you felt about it. Because you don't rush to an answer, the answer you reach doesn't waver easily. Just as a pine adds a ring each year, your thoughts build up one layer at a time.
Pines don't drop their needles in winter, so from the outside they always look the same. While you're thinking things through inside, you may look to others as if you're perfectly fine. Even while nothing seems to change on the outside, your roots are slowly growing deeper.
Strengths
- You can think things through on your own until you reach your own sense of peace with them
- You can hold on to conclusions you've thought through, in your own words
- Even when your feelings are shaky, you're not thrown around by what others say
Where you may stumble
- Until you've finished thinking, there are stretches when you can't focus on anything else
- While you're thinking in silence, the people around you aren't sure what to say
- You try to work out how the other person feels on your own as well, so your thinking time grows longer
Sounds familiar, Pine?
- On a bad day, you get home, make a cup of tea, and sit by yourself for a long time
- A few days later, you suddenly realize on your own, “Oh, so that's what that was about”
- When someone asks, “How have you been?”, you mention something already settled for the first time
Where you shine
Dilemmas with no quick answer, and setbacks that keep coming back. A conclusion you've taken time to think through becomes a solid foothold the next time the same thing happens.
Tips for “Pine”
- Give your thinking time a cut-off: “That's enough for today”
- Write your conclusion in a notebook in one line, and let that be the end of it
- Choose a place where you settle yourself — your usual walking route or a favorite seat
Matches
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Willow — The Willow also settles itself on its own. You both know when the other wants to be left alone, so there's no need to tiptoe around each other. Watching the Willow's lightness helps the Pine loosen up a little, too.
Moss — Moss also takes time to absorb things. It's an unhurried listener, so even when the Pine talks only after sorting out its thoughts, Moss listens quietly to the very end.
Dandelion — The Dandelion reaches out with “You'll feel better if you talk about it.” Being invited before its thoughts have come together can feel to the Pine like having its roots tugged at.
Which one are you? 12 everyday situations, about 2 minutes.
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