Wagashi Quiz
Kashiwa Mochi (Oak-Leaf Rice Cake)
Like the oak that keeps its old leaves until new buds appear, you tie bonds with people at each of the year's milestones.
Kashiwa mochi is a wagashi eaten on May 5, the Boys' Festival now known as Children's Day: a rice cake filled with bean paste and wrapped in an oak leaf. Because the old leaves of this oak are said not to fall until new buds appear, it's said to have become a symbol of the family line carrying on. The custom of eating it on May 5 is thought to have spread in the Edo period, centered on Edo itself.
You keep things simple and treasure the turning points of the year. You remember yearly events and special days, and when that time comes around, you get in touch with people. You hold on to the bonds you've tied as firmly as mochi, and you stay close by until newcomers feel at home.
Besides smooth and chunky bean paste, kashiwa mochi can also be filled with a miso-flavored paste. In parts of western Japan, it's said to be wrapped in the leaves of a climbing plant, a kind of greenbrier, instead of oak. You, too, may change how you do things depending on the place and the people, but you keep up your habit of meeting at the milestones. That also means that in months with no milestone, you tend to wait for a reason to get in touch.
Strengths
- You remember seasonal milestones and special days and reach out to people
- You can keep the bonds you've tied strong for a long time
- You can stay close by until newcomers feel at home
Where you may stumble
- You stay in the looking-after role so long that your own next step gets put off
- Because you value milestones, it's hard for you to say yes to spur-of-the-moment invitations
- Because you hold on to bonds for so long, it takes you a while to let people go when they drift away
Sounds familiar, Kashiwa Mochi (Oak-Leaf Rice Cake)?
- Every year at the same time, you send seasonal greetings to the same people
- You've exchanged holiday cards for years with friends who live far away
- On the same holidays every year, you get together with people you've known for ages
Where you shine
Seasonal events, or a group that's only just welcomed someone new. Your patient looking-after tends to help connections take root.
Tips for “Kashiwa Mochi (Oak-Leaf Rice Cake)”
- Decide in advance how long you'll keep looking after someone
- Every now and then, say yes to a last-minute invitation
- In months with no milestones, send a short note anyway
Matches
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Hina Arare (Doll Festival Rice Puffs) — Hina Arare enjoys seasonal events with a light, festive touch. For Kashiwa Mochi, who values the milestones, Hina Arare brightening up the events makes the traditions it keeps all the more fun.
Nerikiri (Shaped Bean-Paste Sweet) — Nerikiri comes up with seasonal ways of presenting things. When Nerikiri adds a seasonal touch to the unadorned Kashiwa Mochi, the yearly events gain a new color.
Senbei (Rice Cracker) — Senbei is unadorned, always the same, and keeps things breezy with people. Kashiwa Mochi wants to renew its bonds at the seasonal milestones, while Senbei wants to meet casually without caring about milestones. They like different levels of closeness, and each finds the other's timing for getting in touch hard to read.
Close neighbors
These differ from this one on just 1 of the 3 axes. If one of your axes was near the middle, you may have their side too.
Which one are you? 18 everyday situations, about 3 minutes.
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